This massage is primarily to have fun and enjoy sexual arousal for a longer period of time. The idea is to awaken the sexual energy and subsequently send this sexual energy through the whole body, rather than to waste it in a single peak orgasm. In contrast to almost all other general massage techniques, it emphasizes the pelvis and the pelvic floor including the external anus.
Yoni in Sanskrit language stands for the source of life and the vagina. Exactly in the area of the pelvis is where we store a lot of trauma where we are hurt and humiliated. It was certainly seen as a forbidden zone when you were a child. Here it is honored and plays a central role.
The goal is not to have a quick release but to fill your whole body with sexual energy, life energy, strength. This enables you to experience a total body orgasm and even multiple orgasms. This includes the technique of Karsai Nei Tsang. The possibility of massaging both the lingam and the prostate, or the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time makes this massage very complete. In TEM it is mainly about generating and stimulating the sexual energy and how to enjoy this energy and sexual arousal for as long as possible.
The penis strokes and vagina strokes are central. You lie on a table or on a mattress on the floor. The KTM is always on a mattress on the floor and is more intimate. As a masseur I am literally closer and sometimes use my entire body, so there is also more body contact between the giver and receiver. You make conscious use of certain forms of breathing, movement, and visualization. As a receiver you are co-director of the experience because you communicate with few words so that it fits even more with your wishes and desires.
I instantly knew this is going to change my life. All the pieces fell into place and I felt in heaven. My first massage taoistic erotic massage was very satisfying. Would like a second appointment. I have now left that idea behind.
